Top 5 tips for modern moms

It is no secret that an image of a woman who has time for everything is in trend today. Jack-of-all-trades: a wife, a mom, a lady of the house and a business lady all in one. However, in chase of such an image moms inevitably wonder if it is possible to combine work and family without prejudice to the child.

1. Treat yourself with care.

Both motherhood and professional self-realization require a lot of energy. It is necessary to replenish your life regularly in order to combine both activities safely for health and good relationship within the family.

Find something that helps you, and that it is available for frequent use. It will be better if such methods will be different and let your family know about them. In this case, it would be easier to support you.

2. Prioritize.

Combining work and children upbringing you have to find balance and choose something. Pick out what is important for you and requires the greatest concentration and efforts. And let the rest take its course.

There are duties, which have to be done regularly, and it is hard to go without them, for example, food cooking. Think at how to make the task easier. Say if the rissoles are baked in oven their taste is almost the same as that fried in the pan, but you pay much less attention to them.

3. Ask for the help.

There are many options: relatives, nannies, baby-sitters, homemakers and different services like home delivery and dry-cleaning. Do not forget about home appliances. Multicooker helps to decide an issue of a healthy breakfast without sacrificing sleep. Robot vacuum cleaner will freshen the floors in the apartment and evening watching of filmstrips will help children fall asleep.

By the way, slide projectors are produced nowadays and modern devices have even more options. For example, “MULTiKUBIK” company produces CINEMOOD mini-cinemas. Besides cartoons, it contains an entire library of filmstrips. You can lie down on the bed with a child, direct a ray of projection on the ceiling, and read him or her fairy tales with pictures in the dark. Such a tradition guarantees an untroubled sleep for children and some more free time for you.

4. Show creativity.

Some things can be done simultaneously: you can knit and tell a fairy tale to the child, listen a webinar and do gymnastics.

Think of how to fill the forced pauses in traffic jams, queues, waiting to start the computer, near the dormant baby who does not want to let you go.

5. Draw the child into.

Some part of your staff from the list is quite able to do with your child, without waiting him for sleep.

Children can put things in their places (if the baby is small yet, he can be carried away with a “pimply” film, and you can entrust elder child with sorting by colors or size), staple the documents, put papers by folders and print with their own toy printer in a way like mom does if the process will be in the form of the game.

10 Things Happy Moms Do Differently

I began buying into the myth of “doing it all” at an early age. In my 20s, I had my checklist life in mind: start a lucrative career right after college, meet someone and fall in love, get married by age 30, get my career to a successful enough point that I could take some time off without losing footing, and then, get pregnant and have my first child before 35. It seemed like a realistic timeline of expectations and, according to the tenets of feminism, not only could I do it all – it was my right and even my duty as a woman to do it all.

With age, wisdom, and each successive child (I now have 4), I learned that by trying to do it all, especially at the same time, I was not doing anything at a level of 100 percent effort or enjoyment. There was simply too much to accomplish to feel 100 percent about anything other than my stress level.

While there is no magic pill you can take to achieve”work-life balance,” there are a few things I’ve learned over the years that have helped me keep my sanity and actually enjoy the daily juggle of motherhood, marriage and career.

Whether your work is at home, in the office, or both, these 10 tips have helped me find a healthier work-life balance, and I hope they will help you too:

1. Find your own balance.

There IS no perfect balance when it comes to motherhood, career and marriage. It’s up to you to prioritize, make adjustments and decide what you are and are not prepared to do. Don’t tell yourself “I should be able to,” or “She/he can do it, so I ought to be able to.” Most importantly, don’t listen to anyone else telling you what you should or should not be able to do! Pay attention to your own needs and well-being. If you feel you’re out of balance day in, day out, then you are! It’s time to look at what’s going on and reevaluate. Be willing to re-negotiate your work duties, as well as your parenting duties. They WILL change over time.

2. Choose “good enough” over “perfect.”

All the pressure that women today put on themselves today to be the perfect mother, the perfect worker, and the perfect wife (with the perfect physique!), takes the joy out of motherhood and saps us of energy. Wouldn’t it be nice if we could just give ourselves – and others – a break? When something needs to be done, ask yourself: is it important that the job is just done, or done perfectly? Nine out of 10 times, the answer will be “just done.” For example, Ginnie has always done the family laundry, and she’s developed a system that works. However, now she’s working full-time, she just can’t handle that task in addition to everything else. She ignored her husband’s offers of help because she didn’t trust him to do it properly. Finally, after it had become a huge issue, she let it go. Her husband now shares the task with her. He doesn’t do it her way, and she can still get irritated by the way he flings mangled baby t-shirts with their sleeves still inside out on the radiators, but she is learning to turn a blind eye

3. Don’t be a martyr.

“I’ve got so much to do.” “I’ve got to do everything round here.” Do these sentences ring a bell? Do you feel put upon and resentful while at the same time hogging all the work? If so, martyrdom could become an addiction for you, pushing you to take on more, draining you physically and emotionally and raising your stress levels. And here’s the interesting part – it’s your ego talking. The motivation for martyrdom, and the big payoff, is that it makes you feel important. You think it makes you look busy and important. It doesn’t. It’s annoying and infuriating for people around you and it makes you look like…a martyr! Solution? Ask for help and let other people take the weight off your shoulders. And learn to say NO firmly and often.

4. Draw a line between home and work.

This is easier said than done in today’s world, when we carry our work around with us on our Blackberries, iPhones and other portable devices. It’s hard to unplug and “turn off” your work duties you get home (or worse, if you work from home), just as it’s hard to “turn off” worries about kids and home life when you are at work. Try this trick. “Download” the things that are on your mind before you leave work (or home). Write your “To Do”list on a piece of paper, or type it into your computer or Blackberry, so you remember the things you need to do when you get back. Keep your mind focused on the fact that this is the end of that activity, workday or tasks at home. Then put away your “To Do” list and LEAVE IT until the next day.

5.Put on your oxygen mask first.

Moms, that means you need to take care of yourself before you can take care of others – including your kids, your husband, your aging parents. Take time out for YOU. It’s not selfish; it’s necessary. Exercise, meditate, read, hang with friends. Schedule one night once a week that you do something that you enjoy. It doesn’t apply to things you think will be good for you or things that your children or partner would enjoy. This is for you. Whatever it is – having a meal with someone, reading a novel in the bath or lolling on the sofa with a glass of wine, watching TV – make it non-negotiable. Turn off your mobile, don’t check your emails, and screen incoming calls. Stick to it and don’t put it off.

6. Say NO to mommy guilt.

Take the “S” word – SHOULD – out of your vocabulary. When other people tell you that you SHOULD be making your own organic baby food, or that you SHOULDN’T be letting your kids watch TV – ever, or that you SHOULD breastfeed your baby for a full year, or that you SHOULD go back to work because you owe it to yourself and the Women’s Movement and it’s a safety net for the future, just let it go. Do what works for you. Don’t internalize all the SHOULDs that fill your life.

7. Remember, to compare is to despair.

You may think your neighbor has got it all, but take my word for it, she doesn’t! We all face our own struggles as mothers, wives and workers. It’s time to move past the Mommy Wars – when working moms look down on stay-at-home moms, and stay-at-home moms criticize the working moms. Better to spend your energy supporting other women, rather than judging them. It will benefit us all in the long run.

8. Just. Slow. Down.

A friend of mine told me that when her kids were little, she would repeat to herself the mantra: “the days are long, but the years are short.” Sometimes, it feels like you are tending to so many important tasks at the very same moment. If you can make that important phone call while driving your kids to school, you are using your time well. Yes, you may be getting that call out of the way, but if you are talking on the phone, and driving, and your kids are in the car, nothing that you are doing is getting 100% of your attention. You are cheating the person on the phone, your are cheating your kids, and you are not paying attention to the road ahead of you.

9. Redefine “success.”

Women today are admitting that the “do it all” mantra of the 70s and 80s is making them feel overwhelmed, anxious and depressed. We need to re-define what it means to be a success today – a definition that doesn’t include the words superwoman, supermom, or doing it all. For those moms who are working, pat yourself on the back for doing your best at juggling kids and career. It’s not easy. For moms who have taken time off to raise kids, know that you are doing the most important job in the world.

10. Find your passion…and follow it!

One of the keys to being happy – as a mother, worker and wife – is to find a vocation, job or hobby that will bring joy to your life. If you find a job that combines your passion with bringing in an income, all the better. If not, pursue this passion outside of your work – be it gardening, tennis, writing, or just enjoying time in the company of friends.

Become Your Favorite Character With The Onesies You’ll Ever Love

These are fleece overalls in the form of animals or popular anime heroes. Only he is not the same as in early childhood at the matinees, but cuter is soft, fluffy, and pleasant to the touch.

Where did Onesies come to America?

Homeland of Onesies is Japan. Onesies are two Japanese words that mean wear a soft toy. A large collection of adorable and cute onesies  available only at kigurumi.co

What sew onesies?

Most often Onesies sew from fleece. In our case, this is synthetic “wool.” Products from it are lightweight, durable, and comfortable and keep warm. Does not absorb moisture, but is its conductor. That is, moisture from the outside does not penetrate inside. Clothes dry directly on the body. At the same time fleece brings steam and sweat from the body to the outside.

With a small weight, fleece breathes well, is much stronger than natural fabrics, elastic, keeps its shape for a long time and does not require special care. Fleece is very pleasant to the touch and does not cause allergic reactions unlike wool. By the way, fleece clothing continues to heat, even if wet. Fabric is of different quality. For example, poor-quality fleece, which is often used for sewing in China, can be noticeably electrified.

Where do they wear onesies?

There are many options:

  • Pajamas
  • Home suit
  • Funny suit for skiing on the slopes
  • Suit for a photo shoot or party.
  • In any case, onesies is fun, bright and soft.

It is considered that home wear can be any. The main thing is that it is comfortable. A color, style, cut and many other parameters do not matter. In fact, it is not. Today, household items are subject to constant analysis. And we can safely say that the numerous collections of certain brands of clothing imply a line of things created for home comfort.

We would like to draw the reader’s attention to the fact that convenience still remains one of the main criteria. But this does not mean that you can ignore the external parameters. Best of all is to combine all aspects. Is it possible? Of course! And in this article we will reveal the secret how to purchase products that meet all indicators.

Also, we would like to draw attention to the need to choose the correct cut. You need to purchase such products that will not confuse your movements and allows you to move easily and freely. What does this mean? The fact is that the best solution is a solid cut. We draw your attention to the fact that today one piece cut is becoming more and more popular both in the field of everyday fashion and in the creation of home clothes.

An example of this is all beloved Onesies pajamas. It looks great, allow you to be in conditions of comfort and convenience. Also, such models are warm enough. This is important especially if we are talking about the cold season, when there is not enough comfort and warmth. Buying high-quality Onesies pajamas is not as easy as it may seem at first glance.

There are many different options, but not all of them are high quality. And, as you understand, only high-quality clothing can be practical, comfortable, durable, and at the same time have an excellent appearance throughout the entire period of operation. We choose and purchase high-quality onesies pajamas on the pages of the site. Here the range is represented only by high-quality models.

Onesies can be put on for a walk, used as a costume at a thematic party. Here you cannot limit yourself. Delivery is carried out throughout the country, and payment can be done in various ways. In addition to the pleasant prices, we are pleased to offer our customers the most profitable promotions and discounts that significantly reduce the cost of the goods. You can be sure that you will get what you want by cooperating with our online store.

Onesies is a costume in which any person who loves to shock the public can depict a cartoon character, a movie or computer games. Apart from these, in order to know more one may always take the help of the internet.

When to wear Onesies and how to handle it?

Onesies is not just a cool jumpsuit that can be summer and winter, with a hood, tail and ears. This is, first of all, a comfortable and cool suit, in which it is warm, it is easy to move and please others. Soft, pleasant to the touch, made of polyester, onesies not wrinkled and suitable for both boys and girls.

Onesies pajamas have long since passed from the status of home wear in fashion trend. What is onesies? Onesies is costumes (pajamas) in the form of a jumpsuit with button fasteners or zippers, which imitate the image of a popular cartoon character or some kind of animal. Such clothing is very bright and always attracts attention, so it is not used exclusively for sleeping or sitting at home. In Onesies, you can go to a costume party or even give smiles to passersby by putting such an outfit on the street. Of course, in Onesies do not walk through the streets. But such an outfit can be seen on those who are involved in extreme sports and makes this show. They wear Onesies to attract even more attention to their performance. And it is quite justified, because bright pajamas like others and always cause a smile.

Onesies pajamas are suitable for all ages. Naturally, it is most popular with children. Children like to turn everything into a game, so it will be more interesting to go to bed if you wear this kind of pajamas. And you can play it. However, not only children are delighted with onesies, so adults are happy to buy such pajamas for themselves. Putting on them, you can return to childhood and cheer yourself up. And how much more fun the home party will be if guests are also in Onesies. Therefore, such a pajama costume gives plenty of room for imagination. And it is simply necessary if there are not enough positive emotions in life.

The name Onesies comes from the Japanese words “Kira”, which means “to wear”, and “nigurumi” meaning “soft toy.” In combination, these words denote costumed performers. Such artists are quite popular in Japan. They depict the characters of the famous anime. The actors in the costumes of their heroes participate in anime festivals, playing the story told in the anime for viewers, or simply strolling in theme parks or shopping centers to entertain people or advertise some products. In general, we can say that Onesies pajamas are derived from life-size puppets, which can be seen on the streets. But the Japanese have added their charm to this phenomenon and made it ubiquitous. Cosplayers could not do without onesies, and they became more and more popular. Some did not want to part with their favorite character even at night. This is how the Kugurumi pajamas appeared.

Gradually, the fashion on Onesies went beyond Japan. Now such suits have become quite commonplace. They can easily be found in the stores of our country and do not necessarily order from Japan. And the suit can be picked up even on a two-meter uncle. Onesies is a great alternative to regular pajamas, and sometimes an original outfit for a costume party. Choosing onesies pajamas, you need to consider not only your size. It is worth paying attention to the manufacturing material. If pajamas are bought for a party, then you can buy synthetics, which do not cause much trouble, and it can be easily washed in a typewriter. If the purchase is intended for a child who will sleep in these pajamas, then it is necessary to give preference to natural fabrics with small admixtures of synthetics. You also need to remember that Onesies pajamas can be winter and summer.

And one more thing, the Onesies necessarily has different elements. It can be sewn ears, tail, and horns. It should be remembered that with such additions it is not always comfortable to sleep, so you need to clarify how soft, for example, the “tail” has pajamas. Will it be comfortable to sleep with the child? If the onesies is perceived solely as a costume, then this factor is absolutely not important.

Absolutely Precious – The Best Charm Bracelets

Charm bracelets are always an excellent gift for someone. After all, it is a gift that you can keep upgrading with each year. In fact, if you buy a charm bracelet for your better half, you can buy a new charm for every occasion you think of. But, picking a perfect one isn’t easy. Therefore, we are here to recommend the best charm bracelets you can buy.

Alexy Charm Bracelet

Alexy jewelry prides itself on being able to provide accessories you can use for every great moment in your life. They focus their efforts on creating superb products with stylish designs and affordable prices. And to top it all off, the design is very cute. This bracelet comes with ten charms you can choose to use. Those include a unicorn, a star, a key, a heart, a four-leaf clover and more.

Choker Snake Chain

This cute charm bracelet can easily fit even your most elegant outfits. But, it also won’t clash with your casual wear either. So, we can definitely say that it is a very useful piece of jewelry. You can easily add or remove charms and beads by opening the clasp. In no time, you will have a unique piece of jewelry you can further customize at will.

Daycindy Multiple Layer Charm Bracelet

If you prefer bracelets with that extra bling to them, Daycindy is the best match for you. Every single bracelet will be handmade and polished by skillful workers. In fact, that process makes this bracelet so shiny everyone will notice it. And, the adorable details will prompt people around you to give you compliments on your lovely bracelet.

Eunigem Charm Bracelet With a Message

This adorable, elegant charm bracelet is the most beautiful bracelet you will find. It is classy, delicate, and it carries a powerful message on it. Namely, every bracelet comes with a charm saying “She believed she could – so she did.” It is a perfect gift for any friend you might have that has successfully overcome difficulties in their life.

Sromay Blank Wire

Believe it or not, some people prefer to make their own jewelry from nothing. So, for them, the best gift would be a bracelet without charms on it. That way, they can work on the bracelet themselves and customize it to their taste. These bracelets are also very useful to people whose earlier charm bracelet had already met an untimely demise.

Monily Charm Bracelet – Steel Heart

Not every charm bracelet has to have dozens of charms on it to look good. In fact, some look even better when they have a single charm that then pops out properly. Exactly that is the case with this Monily initial charm bracelet. It comes with a single, beautiful stainless steel heart with a letter on it. The workers try hard to polish it to the level at which it is hard to discern it from sterling silver.

Q&Q Fashion – Silver Plated Alice in Wonderland Bracelet

If you are a big fan of the book, you will never be willing to separate from this bracelet. It comes with every single charm you would ever want to see on an Alice in Wonderland themed bracelet, and the craftsmanship is incredible. Even the mirrors actually work, and can serve you in a pinch. The only flaw it has is that the watch is just for show. But then again, you are not buying this bracelet to check the time.